HOW TO CHOOSE THE PERFECT ENGAGEMENT RING (FOR YOU)
- annie king
- 1 day ago
- 3 min read
Choosing an engagement ring is one of life’s most meaningful decisions—and going bespoke is the ultimate way to make it uniquely yours. It's now 2025 and bespoke jewellery is more accessible and exciting than ever, blending craftsmanship, ethics, and individuality. Here’s your guide to making the best choices you can when it comes to choose and creating a bespoke engagement ring.
1. Know Your Stones: Choose with Budget and Ethics in Mind
When it comes to white stones, the choice is yours—natural diamonds, lab-grown diamonds, or synthetic stones like moissanite each have their appeal. The truth is, only you will know what type of stone it is. Lab-grown diamonds offer ethical and budget-friendly options, while moissanite brings stunning brilliance for a fraction of the cost. Choose a stone that aligns with your values and fits your budget.
2. Metal Matters (But Not as Much as You Think)
Let’s talk about metals. If your heart is set on a white ring but white gold isn’t in your budget, silver is an excellent alternative. In the real world, most people can’t tell the difference between white gold and silver, so don’t let price tags dictate your choice.
And here’s a pro tip: 18ct white gold isn’t naturally bright white—it’s a beautiful gunmetal grey. To achieve that iconic bright-white finish, it needs rhodium plating once a year for the duration of your wear. If low maintenance is your style, consider 9ct white gold or silver instead.
3. Prioritize Stones Over Metal
When working within a budget, let your focus fall on the star of the show: the stone. Durable and dazzling, sapphires are timeless, and moissanite is a modern, eco-friendly showstopper. With a higher budget for the stones, your jeweller will be able to source you some unique cuts and shapes to choose from. Remember, the metal holds the story, but the stones steal the show.
4. How to Find the Perfect Ring Size
Avoid the common mistake of measuring a ring your partner already owns—it likely doesn’t fit that finger. Engagement rings are different, and many people intentionally avoid wearing rings on their engagement finger until it’s time. Instead, discreetly enlist their friends to help you. Any reputable jeweller will offer a free resize on an engagement ring to ensure a perfect fit.
5. Finding the Right Jeweller
Starting your journey with the right jeweller is key. Whether you’re envisioning intricate designs or minimalist elegance, or simply don’t know what you want. independent jewellers offer unparalleled creativity, customisation and will guide you clearly through the process.
If you’re not sure where to begin, allow me to introduce myself—I’m Annie, owner of AOK Jewellery, a specialist in bespoke engagement rings. I pride myself on my unique style and ethical manufacturing processes. My studio is based in Glasgow but I work with clients from all over the world so wherever you are feel free to get in touch.
Bespoke Rings: A Love Story in Precious Materials
A bespoke engagement ring is more than just jewellery—it’s a symbol of your unique journey together. With the right guidance, you can design something truly unforgettable, balancing beauty, practicality, and meaning.
When you’re ready to begin this exciting chapter, let AOK Jewellery guide you every step of the way. Your perfect ring awaits.
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